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How I learned to drive

How I learned to drive

19:30
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20:50
Billets: €19.00

VRIJDAG Theater, Music & Visual Arts Locations

Noorderbuitensingel 11, 9717 KK Groningen

There is nothing as complicated as family. A gripping, intimate play about memory, manipulation and survival in this bold, minimalist world where past and present collide. 


A strained sexual relationship that challenges on every level

Many people have described this text by American playwright Paula Vogel as Lolita written from a female perspective. It’s about a young woman reflecting on her life so far - a life scarred by trauma but also filled with love. And therein lies the problem: nothing in this story is simple.  

The story follows the strained, sexual relationship between a young woman, Li'l Bit, and her aunt's husband, Uncle Peck, from her pre-adolescence through her teenage years into college and beyond. Using the metaphor of learning to drive, the play explores a provocative landscape around control, pedophilia and manipulation. 

The actors are extraordinary as they delve into the relationship between the two characters, Li’l Bit and her uncle, a relationship fraught with ambivalence: love, tenderness, curiosity, teaching, trust, the formation of authority, mistakes, and, consequently, boundary violations, grooming, and harm leading to self-destruction.  

Originally premiered in 1997, the writer Paula Vogel boldly opted to write her play with empathy for both characters, thereby opening up a vital, discussion about the causes - not just the consequences - of such a relationship.  

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